Relationship is a common word in the dictionary but has a very deep and emotional meaning when we relate it with our life.
Relationship is a special type of bond between partners, it's not specifically about partners, it can be with your friends and family members but for now we will keep our focus on partners.
Deeping diving deeply into this topic I found that it's easy to build relationships but it's very very hard to make it long lasting.
I mean just look at today's youth. If I am not wrong, people of 18-19 years are in a serious relationship, I mean that's not the problem, the problem is your serious relationship is not even lasting for more than 6 months.
I mean this is what you call a relationship ? We will discuss true relationships as well as about hookup culture and many other things in detail but our major discussion will be on How to improve your relationship with your partner, spouse, friends, family members and cow workers.
So pick up your cup of coffee, stay relaxed on your couch or sofa and stay relaxed and be attentive for the last 8 minutes because these 8 minutes will give you the proper directions to strengthen your relationship as well as How to keep your relationship strong.
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Toxic relationship and how it starts ?
ahh let's understand this with real life experience.
So if you are reading this blog post then surely you are in a relationship and maybe you are a newbie who is new into the relationship or you are here just for knowledge.
So currently we have 3 types of people reading this article:
1. Who are in a serious relationship, looking to improve their relationship with their partners.
2. The new one who is trying to build a relationship with their friends and family members.
3. These people are here to know about relationships, to get proper Knowledge from building relationships to strengthening them.
My question is to the group of 1st people, have you ever been in a situation where you felt jealous when you saw your partner with someone else.
Have you ever judged your partner for coming late from the office?
Have you ever restricted your partner from talking to his/her male & female besties?
Do comment, in the comment section, i am waiting for your reply.
So right now I believe that all of you from group 1st have somewhere done this. Am I right? Yes I am, this is the sharp reality of today's relationship.
If you can prove me wrong, then the comment section is open for you!
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I personally believe that somewhere at some point of time we have judged our partners, we have been jealous at some point of time. It's absolutely fine but in a limited way.
When your jealousy starts increasing you keep on judging your partner, putting restrictions on him this is the point from where a toxic relationship starts.
What is a healthy relationship?
So a healthy relationship is a relationship where you and your partner have complete trust in each other.
A healthy relationship is the one where you never judged your partner, you have never put any restrictions or limitations on your partner.
Whether it's talking with friends or wearing short dresses, you are okay with her. The same for girls.
You understand her feelings, you provide her emotional support when she needs you the most. This is what we call a healthy relationship.
In a healthy relationship there is no "you vs me", it's all about "us", it's all about being together and fighting each problem together. This is a healthy relationship.
Some small fights and jealousy is common in a healthy relationship and this is how a relationship lasts.
My parents have been in a relationship for more than 20 years, and what I observed is that they understand each other, they have a complete faith in each other. They trust each other and moreover they love each other.
Why is it important to have healthy relationships?
There are many reasons why a healthy relationship is important and one reason that I feel is the most important is being the highest of the highest is happiness.
Happiness is what people search for when they get into a relationship. Imagine yourself into a relationship where you are put into limitations and restrictions, there are trust issues between you and your partner.
My simple question is will you stay in that relationship, i would say no!.
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Happiness is the key for a healthy relationship and to get that happiness it's really important to build a healthy relationship.
To make your bond stronger , a healthy relationship is important.
To have a life partner that supports in all your ups and downs healthy relationships is important.
To have a bodyguard that protects you from internal and external enemies, a healthy relationship is important.
Last but not the least, to have someone who can care for you, the one who can understand your feelings for that healthy relationship is important.
How can you improve your relationships?
Different people have different opinions and in this blog post we have provided some of the finest yet effective and practical ways with little or no effort that can improve your relationship in no time.
The deal is you have to read till the end. We have divided building a relationship and improving your relationship with your partner in 4 sections, communication, trust, love and respect.
We will discuss each of them in detail to give you a proper idea so that next time you will feel no need to read this article again.
Coincidentally right now i am writing this article beneath the beautiful stars and moon, looks so romantic right ?
The way the moon and stars are inseparable you have to build a relationship that is full of trust and love and it's hard to separate each other.
Build Communication with your partner
A study conducted on human psychology and relationships states that girls are not logically oriented when they are in trouble they just need emotional support, they have the guts to solve their problems on their own.
On the other hand boys seems more logic and fqcts driven, they need emotional support but someone who can help them.
You have feel that somewhere in your life.
In short.s a good communication really matters to build a healthy relationship. Here are a few tips that are practically examined and can surely help you to strengthen your relationship with your partner.
Be a good listener.
Dear friends, be a good listener, listen to her, whatever she says, don't ignore her when she is talking with you.
Look for her problems try to connect with her, make her feel comfortable and listen what she is saying.
You must listen to her, this will create a positive impact on your partners head. She will think that you are giving your precious time to listen all her stuff and you will become more lovable.
Remember don't give her suggestions just provide her emotional support and make her feel free. That's all.
Same for girls they can do with their boys partner, one thing they can do is share your suggestions with your male partner. As said earlier males are more logic oriented so instead of listening to them you can share your views with them.
He will feel that you are interested in what he is telling you and this will help you in creating a positive impact over your partner's head.
Be honest and open.
Second but yet one of the biggest tips or you can say it's a base of healthy relationship and that is being honest and open.
Don't be a man or woman who is dating many people, be honest with your partner because that's the basic need of a relationship, honesty is necessary.
Be open with your partner, share what you are feeling for her, if you feel any issues that can be discussed with your partner just go ahead and share with them.
Be open means sharing your views and accepting others, discussing all about each other is what you call being open.
I am sure that group 1 people are doing that ?
Be willing to compromise.
Willing to compromise, nobody is born perfect, everyone is different, everyone has different tastes and different opinions.
When coming into relationships it's not that only one partner will compromise, to build a healthy relationship you both have to put equal efforts.
Guys just understand that no relationship is perfect our efforts makes the relationship perfect.
Be willing to compromise, say sorry even it's not your fault, make him/her to get open and share feelings with you. This is how you can live a happy life.
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Trust your partner
While you are done with communication it's a time to build trust between you and your partner because a relationship lies in on trust. If there is no trust there is no relationship.
Be honest.
Never ever cheat your partner, this is the first and foremost rule that you should learn before coming into a relationship.
Be honest with your partner.
These days i am observing that there is a new type of culture evolving called hook up culture, i mean i can't say more about it because it would be inappropriate to share these things in a family friendly blog but i suggest you to google it those who don't know.
So basically this hook up culture is destroying the foundation of relationship and i feel that this must be stopped instead of getting into relationships people are preferring this hook up.
That is ridiculous and shameful too, i mean apart from physical contact there is much more in a relationship.
So please be honest with your partner, never ever cheat him/her. Once you are in a relationship then worship her, and make yourself understand there is no boy or girl beautiful then mine.
Once you are at that state, then i bet you would have the most beautiful relationship.
Be supportive
See, support is important, not just emotional support but pushing your partner to work for his carrier, leading your partner from the front when he is in problems.
Holding your partners hand in every right decision is what we call being supportive.
So support your partner, help him in achieving his dreams.
Respect your partner
Communication done, trust done it's time for respect.
In a relationship respect is awarded higher than love. No matter how much you love your respect given to your partner should always be greater than your love.
Treat your partner with dignity and respect.
Respect your partner, as said earlier respect should be more than love so do what it takes, but respect her.
Once you start respecting her, you don't need anything to prove your love, make her feel special like your queen or king.
Value their opinions and feelings.
Value their opinions and feelings when they suggest something that's correct and disagree when you feel that it's not right; this should be the basic rule of a relationship.
Apart from that, one thing that you should keep in your head is to value their opinions. If you don't like something about your partner then don't say it straight, just value their feelings and just say that you are right but I feel that I can't stand your opinion.
Don't be hard, be gentle, not so rude. One thing that you can do is accept others' opinions but do what you want.
Overall what you have to do is respect your partner's feelings.
Be willing to forgive
In a relationship one thing that really matters a lot is being willing to forgive. Relationships work on a principle of valuing each other and willing to forgive if some mistakes happen.
So don't take their mistakes on your heart, be free and relaxed. Let it be if some mistakes happen then forgive them but if the same mistake happens twice and thrice then make her understand.
Saying sorry and forgiving is not a big deal, it shows that you have a big heart so be willing to forgive.
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Love your partner
Last but not the least, love, loving your partner, showing care and affection and making her feel special is what helps you build a relationship with your partner.
Show your partner how much you care.
It's not necessary to show how much you care but don't think that it's not important, at some events or some days it's really important to make her feel special. Not just for females but for males too.
Whether it's your partner's birthday or Valentine's Day, do something to make your partner feel special.
Apart from that you don't need any event to make her feel special, your love and care will make her feel special.
Caring her daily and loving as your partner is, unconditional hugs is what makes your partner fall in love with you again.
Conclusion
Whoo! Finally we have reached the end of our article and I feel that I have shared each and every practical and emotional tips on how to build a relationship with your partner, friends, spouse and friends.
If you are reading this article till now then my friend you are one step closer to improving relationships.
Last but not the least there is nothing more you have to add in your relationship, the above mentioned points are enough to build a healthy relationship and to improve your communication skills, to resolve conflict, to show your partner you love them, make time for your partner.
That's the complete guide to build and strengthen your relationship. Hope this will help you !
If yes then do comment guys, i would love to know how many years you have been into the relationship, just comment the number.
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Have a strong relationship , good day.
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