Have you ever felt that you are losing yourself in a conversation, do you feel frustrated and angry ?
Believe me, losing in a Communication is surely the worst thing that can happen in a conversation but what can we do in that time ?
You can't openly oppose the other person for hurting you in a conversation or heating debate.
So in order to solve your problem I have figured out the top 3 techniques that will help you in winning every conversation and you will dominate everyone.
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Believe me when I share these tips then people have different opinions on them but I believe that these techniques can be used positively.
So let's get started :
1. Speak less than needed
In a heated conversation we try to speak more and more, we try to express our views , we try to figure out other mistakes.
Believe that's the point where you start losing instead the next time you are in a conversation or heated debate instead of taking more and proving your point keep yourself quiet.
Speak less than needed, don't just open your mouth every time you are in a conversation. If someone asks you to put your views then only speak because no one loves free opinion.
Speaking less in a debate makes you more dominant, it creates an image that you are dominating the other person.
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So at the end you will appear as a strong person and your opponent will get defeated automatically.
See the goal is simple: a person who can't control his emotions can't do anything great in his life.
You should have the power to resist yourself from thoughts.
2. Dealing with jokers
You may have been stuck in a conversation where people are taunting you, they are making fun, they are trolling you.
In that situation this is what you can do to save yourself instead of getting angry and wild on them try to stay calm. Control your emotions and then reply to them.
Ask them Are you okay ?Sounds like you are having a bad day or you can go with this reply. I don't hear what you said ! Could you repeat? If they repeat the same joke again then ask them once again I couldn't understand what you were trying to say.
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Doing this will make them feel embarrassed and at the end you will win.
Apart from that it's important to control your emotions and don't get offended with every single statement that's passed on to you.
Keep yourself calm and let your silence kill other people.
3. Control your emotions
So let me share with you an interesting story. In Japan there was a young samurai and he challenged another samurai for a sword fight but later on the fight day he accepted his defeat without even having the actual fight.
When the other samurai asked the young samurai, "Why have you accepted your defeat?" Then the samurai said I was lost in my anger. I felt emotions in my heart.
That's the same thing with us, never ever let your emotions go over you, never let your emotions control your behaviour.
You must remain calm and composed in every situation and that's how you can easily influence other people.
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If you are not able to control your emotions then surely you will be used by others.
In Conclusion
Keeping yourself dominant in a conversation is important and using these techniques will surely help you in influencing people.
The more confident you will appear the more you will be able to make people surround you.
That's all.
Believe in yourself
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