So, have you ever thought about someone and then you became anxious?
I guess you may have not understood what I am saying, so let's start from the basics.
Whatever you call it, whether love or attraction and when you are deeply indulged in that you tend to think more about that particular person.
Isn't it ? Yes !
The reason behind this whole phenomenon is that your mind wants to think about that person as it gives a new and happy feeling or you can say dopamine rush to your brain..
Currently I am reading an amazing book called law of seduction by Sir Robert Greene, the same author who wrote 48 laws of power.
Basically this is an amazing piece of content and I mean I have no words about how I can express my feelings..
When the author unfolds the mystery of seduction and how your mind gets stuck up in those stuff, I promise you will be very amazed.
So ya let's chat on this interesting topic and how as a person you can save yourself.
The fact is when you see someone beautiful, gorgeous, handsome, elegant and with a wow personality you feel attracted due to their charisma and charm.
Once you start talking with them then a feeling of pleasure pops up in your head and you feel happy staying with them or you know talking with them..
In ancient times during the time of kings and kingdoms the king used their techniques to defeat their enemy.
They create beautiful women and then make his enemy fall in the trap of those gorgeous women and once the enemy is in complete trap automatically he loses power and the king wins.
See the idea is to not let yourself go in this situation.
Attraction is one thing and letting yourself fall in the trap where your thinking capabilities get halted and your thoughts start revolving around that single person. Believe me nothing can harm you more than this.
It's ok if you are in attraction or so called love but you should keep in mind that you are a wise man and no matter how much you love that person, you should not let that person control your thoughts.
Generally it is observed that when you like someone you generally think about them and the reason as said earlier in your mind.. your mind needs dopamine so he will make you do every possible thing and then you say that you are in love.
Believe me love is all about being that person whom you want in your life. Don't search if he or she will come back to you.
The law of seduction is actually one of the confine books that you must read to understand the psychology of love and how a person gets stuck in this problem.
Moving on, the question that I asked you at the beginning was " have you ever thought about someone and then you became anxious? "
Maybe and maybe not. See this majorly happens because you are noticing every single and minute detail and you just try to think and then type your answer.
When you were not in love with that person and when you are with that person the only thing that makes a difference is how you were noticing earlier and what changes you have made now.
In simple terms when you were not in love you were ignoring that person or you were not noticing much about that person like what she is doing or with whom she is talking.
When you are in love then you generally pay your eyes even on the minute details of your person and as a result when your favourite person talks with someone you become anxious and kind of jealous.
So what should you do ?
1️⃣ The first thing is to release them from your mind and make sure that neither their smile nor their beauty distract you from your goals.
2️⃣ Second thing, always think before thinking.. Think before thinking, pay very close attention to your thoughts because your thoughts are powerful and not every single topic needs to be a part of your thoughts.
So be very selective about choosing what to think.
3️⃣ Third thing, don't let anyone enter your arena. If you find someone attractive it's ok, it's natural but once you surrender yourself against their cute smile or beauty you are destroyed.
Don't. Just be focused know matter what he/she is doing. Your aim is to be the best version of yourself. So don't let your mind flow in the thoughts.
This is how you can escape from the matrix of so called love.
In the end love is not about finding the right person, it's all about being that ideal person.
So keep this in your heart that you attract people, you attract your happiness. Thereby stay happy and enjoy your life.
Have a great day. See you soon.
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