How to make the right decision ?
Sometimes it's hard to decide where to go in our life,we all have been through one time and maybe you will face that situation in future where you have to choose one thing.
It can be about anything regarding your career & passion or relationship & best friend regarding your girlfriend and your parents anything.
So what to do at that time, how to make a right decision so that you feel 0 regret at the end.
So here's how to do that
1) Know about your next step
If you wanna make the right decision then you must have a good knowledge of what you are doing and what you are going to do in your future.
You must have a full proof plan either you want to continue your work or you want to work for your passion.
The merits and demerits if you will do that specific work, what are advantages and disadvantages while taking this decision.
Having knowledge of these things will make you make better decisions in your life.
So from now on, look inside yourself and find out all your queries.
2) Be mindful
The best way to make a decision is your brain must be healthy, healthy in the sense you must have the ability to calm yourself.
The ability to understand the merits and demerits of a decision that you are going to take.
Your brain must have the capability to differentiate what is right and wrong for you.
If you want your mind to stay calm and compose then one thing that you can do is meditation.
So start meditating daily and keep yourself calm and make wise decisions.
3) Think about the worst perspective
If you are in a situation where it is tough to choose the right one , think about the wrist perspective of that decision .
one thing you should keep in mind when you are thinking about any good or worst situation , sit in a silent place and try to talk with yourself , you will surely get a better result .
Let me give you an example of study and a smartphone . Now you want to reduce the use of smartphones but you can't then try to think of the worst perspective of using it .
•) If I use my mobile then , I won't be able to focus on my studies .
•) If I use my mobile then, how will I focus on my dreams?
•) using mobile will give me short term enjoyment but it is harmful for my future .
•) If I do hard work then surely after 10-15 years I can own my personal mobile , pc and many more .
Just think about the worst perspective .
4) Don't take decision when you are angry or upset
See one thing that most people do is they take decisions when they are very angry or upset and most of the people make wrong decisions at that time.
When you are angry at that time your brain stops working and you do what your brain wants.
Next time you are angry just keep yourself calm and quiet, don't take any decision otherwise you will regret it in future.
5) The last step evaluate your decision
So i'll know you have made a decision but whether the decision that you have taken is right or wrong it totally depends upon you.
Your work, your way of doing work, the way you act makes you perfect. Moreover if you have made a decision then it's your responsibility to make that decision right.
Prove your decision right among the people who are making your fun . Prove them that you are the best .
Otherwise you will be proved wrong.
5) Listen to your heart
Your brain might take you down a wrong path but your heart will never do that, so whenever you are in a situation where it's hard to choose a single option, then just listen to what your heart says.
Just hear your inner voice, put your hand on your heart, take a deep breath and listen to what your heart says and take that decision.
Conclusion
So that's how you can make a wise and a right decision last but not the least just keep a faith in yourself and prove to the world that your decision is right.
Not by your words but by your actions.
That's all
Best regards
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