How to build a support system

We all know one thing that the way to success is not as easy as we think, a lot of hard work, perseverance, struggle and dedication is required.

Moreover you need patience, you need calmness in your life but after so much disappointment is it really possible to stay calm.

Yes there's a way to stay calm when you build a support system: a collective group of people with whom you can share everything, with whom you can discuss all your problems, with whom you feel relaxed are considered to be your support system.

So how to build a support system so that next time when you are disappointed or you fail then you can find a person to share all your feelings with.

So it's not just about people, anything that motivates you to keep moving falls in the category of your support system.

Motivational songs, books, biographies of great personalities, interviews and speeches also fall in the same category.

Here are few things that you should keep in your mind while building a support system

1. Choose someone who really cares about you

See in this world you can find many well wishers but finding an honest person is very tough.

If you wanna build your support system then link yourself with certain people who genuinely care about you.

Try to make them your friends, talk with them, connect with them and express yourself.

2. Your surrounding 

One factor that makes a difference in the support system is your surroundings. If you are surrounded with negative people then your support system will only have negative people and they will advise you wrong.

So if you are surrounded with such people who are not goal oriented and are busy in enjoying short term enjoyments then you must leave these people.

Leave them because it's ok to have no company rather than a company of toxic people.

3. Figuring out good people

Building a support system is not that tough as you need to figure out those people who actually care about you and that's all. 

Find out those people and build a friendship or relationship with them. It can be anyone, maybe your parents or your colleagues. 

4. Build relationships with books 

Remember one thing building a support system doesn't mean building friendship with good people, it's all about a good company, someone who can motivate you, who can push you further in your life.

So if you are all alone then make a book as your best friend because a book has knowledge of more than 1000 toxic friends. 

It's not about books, only you can listen to motivational speeches, podcasts and interviews. They are the best guide that can give you proper direction in your life.

 Conclusion

In short, a support system can be of anything; it can be a person or a material. It depends upon you how you see this world. 

The main aim of building a support system is to keep on going on the path of success.